Love and Suffering

Why do sometimes people love more when they suffer? Is it owing to the fact that they let their heart open up in a way so as to let every suffering be ignored, every harsh word once said be overlooked? What is it that makes people accept the follies of loved ones? Is it the fear of being left alone when they are gone or an urgency to be accepted no matter what?

It intrigues me…..The working of our minds……When all that is hurtful is said and passed between two near ones…the sun shines again and suffering gives way to more love…..strange….:)